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Most of us have owned a pet at some time in our lives, and very often
our pets become as much a family member as our human kith and kin.
So it is that the death of a pet or a stray pet can represent a time of great loss and
sorrow. For some the loss of a pet is so great that they say
"never again", not wanting to have to go through the grieving for a pet
again. Others will cope with the loss by finding a new pet to help
fill the void left by the loss of their previous pet.
There are many kinds of animal people, but most of us are either dog
people or cat people, and some of us are both. Of course there are
some unfortunate "mere-mortals" who are none of the above! Then
there are the bird-lovers, fish-lovers, reptile-lovers, hamster-lovers,
and of course, rat and ferret-lovers! The dog gets the crown in
terms of title: "Man's Best Friend", but of course it was the cat that
got to be buried with the pharaohs and queens of ancient Egypt. So take
your corners and duke it out, but whichever you are, if you're an
"animal-lover", at some time you will suffer the loss of a loved pet and
experience what may be an intense period of grief and loss.
Growing up my family always had pets. Since we lived on a
half-acre lot right on the edge of town and country, our pets extended
from cats and dogs, through ducks and sheep, to canaries and goldfish!
Quite the petting zoo! For whatever reason, as a kid, the ducks
were "mine". I was never the proud owner of a cat or dog during
childhood. Now I'm "the daddy" of a toy poodle called Kiwi who has
the title of "Company Mascot" for this website. Small dog, big
personality! Not having the privilege of a half-acre like my
parents did, he's the perfect size for my town home. Boy do I ever
dread the day that he's going to pass away, and an interesting
observation is that I have been so aware of the fact that his life will
be short in "human years", and it seems he has already caught me up in
his "dog years". So we are currently experiencing middle-age
together, but all too soon he will overtake me and I will have to deal
with his death unless that proverbial bus comes to greet me first.
Over the last year I have had a couple of friends lose dogs, and
right at this moment, another friend's dog is enduring her last days.
The first death was that of "Mr. Pierre" a "Party Pomeranian".
He was the pet of one of my friend's daughters and was killed in their
backyard by a coyote, which you can imagine is a horrific end for a dog,
but also something very difficult for an eight-year-old to cope with.
Little Megna was heartbroken, and wrote a
memorial and poem
for her dog that I published here at ArikiArt to help her deal with
the loss.
Then earlier this year my friends lost their basset hound, River.
At the time they emailed their friends a wonderful obituary for River
and it was then that I thought it would be nice, if they agreed to it,
to honor River's memory by republishing the memorial they had emailed.
They agreed, and here is River's
memorial.
Publish a Memorial to Your Pet
If you have a pet that you recently lost, I am willing to publish
your pet's memorial and pictures here for a modest fee to compensate for
my time. Please contact me to
publish your pet memorial.
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